We’re Not Listening

Many B2B marketing and sales teams are on autopilot. I offer this series as observations and a belief that we can do better.

Many B2B marketing and sales teams are operating on autopilot.

That may sound harsh but consider the evidence. We have more access to customer feedback, market research, buyer behavior data, surveys, analytics, and industry insights than at any point in business history. Buyers constantly tell us what they want, what they value, what frustrates them, and how they make decisions.

Yet many organizations continue operating as if little has changed.

That disconnect is the topic of this series.

The Listening Gap

At its core, We’re Not Listening is a series of articles about the gap between what markets and customers are telling us, and how B2B organizations respond.

The problem is rarely a lack of information. Most companies already know that buyers are overwhelmed, skeptical, short on time, and increasingly resistant to marketing friction. They know trust is harder to earn. They know buying decisions involve more stakeholders, more scrutiny, and more risk than they once did.

The evidence is not hidden. The challenge has adaptation.

Knowing something has changed is not the same as changing because of it.

Over the years, I’ve noticed a pattern that appears across industries, business models, and company sizes. I call it the We’re Not Listening Loop:

  1. Markets & technology evolve.
  2. Buyers adapt.
  3. Research confirms the shift.
  4. Organizations acknowledge the evidence and invest in technology.
  5. Business go-to-market systems remain largely unchanged.

The cycle repeats.

New technologies emerge. New channels appear. New buyer expectations develop. Companies discuss the implications, attend conferences, publish reports, and commission research. Then many return to familiar habits, metrics, and assumptions.

The result is activity without meaningful adaptation.

Why It Happens

This is not a criticism of marketers, sales teams, or business leaders.

Most people are doing exactly what they were taught to do. They operate within systems, incentives, processes, and performance measures that were often designed for a different era.

Organizations frequently respond to disruption by adding new tools to old assumptions.

Digital transformation provided countless examples. Companies invested heavily in technology but often struggled to rethink the processes and behaviors surrounding it. Today, artificial intelligence presents many of the same challenges. The conversation quickly gravitates toward tools and tactics while deeper questions about strategy, relevance, trust, and buyer behavior receive less attention.

Technology changes quickly. Organizations often do not.

A Simple Example

Consider gated content.

For years, surveys have consistently shown that many B2B buyers dislike exchanging personal information for generic content. They want useful information. They are far less enthusiastic about the forms, emails, and sales sequences that often follow.

Yet gated content remains a standard practice across much of B2B marketing.

Why?

Because the system often rewards lead volume over buyer experience.

Whether one agrees with gating or not is almost beside the point. What interests me is the pattern. Buyers express a preference. Research validates it. Organizations acknowledge it. Behavior changes slowly, if at all.

The loop repeats.

What This Series Explores

This series examines the habits, assumptions, and blind spots that prevent organizations from becoming as buyer-centric as they claim to be.

Some articles will focus on brand strategy and positioning. Others will explore content, demand generation, sales enablement, buyer behavior, trust, differentiation, customer experience, digital transformation, and artificial intelligence.

The common thread is simple:

The common thread is simple: Objective clarity and opportunities to build prospect trust and confidence, and to improve marketing ROI.

If buyers do not understand what you do, who it is for, why it matters, how it is different, and why they should believe you, more activity rarely solves the issue. In many cases, it simply amplifies confusion.

This is especially true for organizations selling complex products, services, expertise, and solutions.

Marketing is not simply about creating attention. It is about creating understanding.

Sales is not simply about pursuing leads.

It is about helping buyers make sense of a decision.

Brand is not simply about looking polished.

It is about creating shared meaning that helps buyers, sellers, and internal teams move in the same direction.

When those things become disconnected, organizations drift into autopilot. The costs are real: wasted resources, weakened trust, frustrated sales teams, and confused buyers.

Why Follow Along?

The purpose of this series is not to argue that everything old is wrong or everything new is right.

Neither is true.

The goal is to challenge assumptions, ask better questions, and explore how organizations can become more responsive to the realities of modern buying.

For more than three decades, I’ve worked across startups, global enterprises, and independent consulting engagements. I’ve watched business evolve from the analog world of print, broadcast, and trade shows through digital transformation and now into the early stages of the AI era.

Technology continues its rapid evolution. Human behavior does not change so quickly.

Strategy sits in the space between them.

Michael Porter once observed, “The essence of strategy is choosing what not to do.” This series is, at least in part, an exploration of that idea.

Because sometimes the biggest business problem isn’t that we don’t know. It’s that we don’t adapt.

To customers, prospects and stakeholders – we’re not listening.


Thank you for reading, your thoughts and commentary are welcome. And I would be honored if you were to share it with someone that might find it relevant to their own business challenges.

This article was originally published on Medium and republished here.

Open letter from a CMO to a CIO

Dear IT,

You and I both know the history of our relationship has not been particularly close over the years. A decade ago we shared few interests, but things have changed. Where once we had little in common, today we need each other to be successful. I hope you agree.

Lately, I‘ve felt the need to share some disturbing visions I keep having. Understandably, your first thought might be “I hardly know you, why bring this problem to me?” Because you too are experiencing tremendous pressure and change in your role as CIO, which tells me you can empathize. And frankly, I need to share it with someone who can appreciate my pain.  I hope you’ll hear me out.

Sleepless Marketing Leader

I haven’t slept well in months. I keep having recurring dreams that when I’m at work, I have blocks of cement on my feet. Every time I try to affect change or adapt to changing customer trends, I can barely move. And, I’m not alone. My team is wearing lead shoes, as are so many others. The dream has different outcomes, but none end well. That’s when I typically wake up.

Again, you ask yourself “Why me?” I’ll explain.

As I was reading Forrester’s Digital Business Imperative report the other day, I was painfully reminded of the growing impact digital everything is having on our personal and professional lives. Traditional marketing tactics are no longer relevant and plug-and-play is no longer enough for either one of us. As CIO, you appreciate the steep challenge of digital evolution; after all, you and your teams are on the front lines, defining and managing technology.  Lets be honest with each other, both our classical measures of value are barely relevant today.

Forrester pointedly states how urgently business leaders must harness digital technologies, not only to deliver the digital experience customers expect but also to increase competitive market position. Digital is transforming our business in every way, at a pace that feels like it’s virtually overnight. Though the analysts refer to it as “transformation,” it feels a lot more like revolution.

How’s this for revolution – Gartner predicts that by 2017, marketing will control more IT budget and technology than you will? As a marketing leader I find that prediction staggering. I don’t mind telling you that we are not equipped to go it alone. Though I remain unconvinced of their prediction, I do know that we need each other to be successful. We need to work together. I’m convinced it’s time for a reset.

I’ve come to realize lately that we hardly know each other after all these years. In fact, I suspect that our perceptions of each other, our roles and our organizations, are fundamentally wrong.   Though our professional paths have been quite different, customers, technology and digital business are common threads redefining both our professions in ways we never imagined, and insisting we redefine ourselves. To be honest, I welcome the challenge.

Most important, we need to get ahead of the curve strategically, or we will slip further behind operationally and financially. There is a lot of change for us to manage and we cannot continue to bolt new technologies onto old models. So the question before us is how, when and where do we begin?

Sincerely,

Your new best friend,
Marketing
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This article was originally published on LinkedIn Pulse on June 30, 2015.

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